Hey Guys! So I've been with my current boyfriend for almost four years now and love him to death. He is for sure my soulmate and I couldn't see myself with anyone else, BUT lately (like the last year) he's been pretty lukewarm about giving me the affection I feel I need. He will do things when I ask, but rarely is a kiss/hug/caress coming from him alone. So does anyone have tips on doing an attraction/affection spell? Do's and don'ts? Or even if people think it would be a good idea to do one period. Thanks for those who answer!
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In the idea of love spells I've learned that the best method is one that does not affect one's own will and you could still do it without having to state that it is indeed a love / affection spell...so I would suggest burning incense...if you can make them your self using these ingredients:
Pink Roses ( best for the longevity of love)
Red Roses (best for passion)
Yellow roses (best for communication)
Cinnamon and nutmeg (for warmth and comfort)
Now I know roses can vary in price and availability so if you can't use roses specifically then find flowers of the same colors specified and I'm sure the intent will work all the same...
I have never made my own incense but I will find a link to a YouTube video that shows you how
https://youtu.be/4xYEDPPYW_0
This isn't the same one I watched....there is one where she turned them into cones...I highly suggest finding that one
Dont forget to add your own flair... free to add and subtract ingredients as needed
Ok so speaking from the perspective of someone who isn't very affectionate, I feel like this is a tough one. It's physically overwhelming for me sometimes to even hold hands for a long time, I can only imagine how strenuous a spell like this could feel like. I'm not gonna say don't do it, just be mindful and specific about your intention cause I can see a couple ways this could backfire. Also if you do something like a honey jar for adding sweetness but their love language is words of affirmation, it could just not have the expected results, so that's something else to consider. Hope I helped somehow!