I need some a little magickal nudge to make my relationship with my mom a bit better, but I'm not sure what would be the best thing to do, specially since I'm a baby witch.
My mom has NPD, so she's a bit emotionally manipulative and a bit of an "energy vampire", is always making things about her and falling into a negative mindset and constantly seeing herself as a victim etc.
I don't want to do any banishing spellwork because, well, it's my mom. Also, I don't think I should meddle with that just yet. And as for warding (for myself) I'm looking into it, but I want to do a spell directed at her.
I was thinking about maybe a self-love spell for her, since narcissistic behavior stems from a lot of insecurity and low esteem in their subconscious. But does anyone have any suggestion for more things I could try?
Also btw we don't live together and she doesn't know about my practice so I can do anything that would have to be given to her or left at her house. My first though is to do candle spell, but again there could be spell types I don't know yet, so I'm open to any suggestion.
Thank you ~~