Hi everyone,
I need some a little magickal nudge to make my relationship with my mom a bit better, but I'm not sure what would be the best thing to do, specially since I'm a baby witch.
My mom has NPD, so she's a bit emotionally manipulative and a bit of an "energy vampire", is always making things about her and falling into a negative mindset and constantly seeing herself as a victim etc.
I don't want to do any banishing spellwork because, well, it's my mom. Also, I don't think I should meddle with that just yet. And as for warding (for myself) I'm looking into it, but I want to do a spell directed at her.
I was thinking about maybe a self-love spell for her, since narcissistic behavior stems from a lot of insecurity and low esteem in their subconscious. But does anyone have any suggestion for more things I could try?
Also btw we don't live together and she doesn't know about my practice so I can do anything that would have to be given to her or left at her house. My first though is to do candle spell, but again there could be spell types I don't know yet, so I'm open to any suggestion.
Thank you ~~
A pretty simple but very effective sweetening spell could be to write her name and date of birth (if you have her hair or a piece of nail, even better) on a piece of paper. Then put it in a small bowl, cover it with sugar while focusing your intention to sweeten her attitude towards you, and then fill with water until you can stir it clockwise. Then put the mixture in the freezer. Redo as needed if you feel the effects are wearing off.
Thanks Kali! That's a very interesting spell, I never thought about working with water. Do I leave it the freezer until I feel I have to redo the spell? Or do I take it out for the ice to melt (like a candle burning down when you make a candle spell)?
You could do it that way! After is the element of change and of emotions. It’s also considered to be a very healing component 😊
since that sweetening energy is something you’d want to keep, when you discard you could bury it or let It melt into the earth. Just be sure to show gratitude
I would think adding to yourself some protective shielding as well ..call it Witch and its much like we empaths do to protect against the energy draining and that shit pile of negative that can just wash and cling all over you and drag you down