I try to never do anything towards anyone without their approval, but I've reached a point where I feel this is necessary. My mother-in-law and father-in-law have been divorced for over 10 years. He has been able to move on and find love and is living his healthiest and best life. She has been holding on this entire time thinking that somehow he'll come back and is just always saying negative things about him and his gf. We've had multiple conversations and interventions with her over the years, she'll make a change for 3 months, and then it comes right back. It's now bleeding into the whole family and is becoming incredibly toxic. I don't want to do a banishing spell because they do have kids and big family parties do happen (very very large Irish family), but something has to give and nothing anyone says has made a difference. I could do a cord cutting spell, but I was also thinking about possibly trying a very strong self-love spell, maybe a candle, that I can send to her. I plan to do a reading before I do anything obviously, but I'd love some input.
Thanks in advance! ✨