My ex really needs to wake up to the dark, negative, corrosive environment he's living in (with family). That he's been a scapegoat to narcissists by the looks. Get strong, 'man up' and realise that I've done no wrong, love him unconditionally and have done nothing but support him unlike his family.
Also that he needs to earn a decent wage, to move out of there for good and have the distance from them (not us) that he needs. In doing so, realise why we had to move out from there.
To then turn out to be the partner to me, (in whatever form that takes) showing me the love and respect I deserve, always, for us, as a family. For his son and me. The people he should put first from this day forth. Thanks in advance