I am practising wiccan slowly and still a very beginner. I am currently in a relationship with a lot of ups and downs. My partner is suffering from a mental illness he is not very open about it. Wonder why? Our connection is passionate but due to the ups and downs it has been very rocky. Due to his illness and differences in ways of communicating.
He has been telling me that he is emotionally drained right now. He is introvert by nature and does not have many friends, but I believe in his good nature and kind character. I actually feel like healing and helping him. He has stated that the relationship has been 50/50 good and stressful times. And has no mental strength anymore, and this hit me hard to be honest. As it is sad. We had some fights at his place and he hasn't allowing me coming to his place which has frustrated me a lot. But let him come to mine in the past five months. He says that the only way is to meet outside, but then states and doubts the relationship if it has to be this way. But I feel he is partly blaming me and not acknowledging his part (mental illness etc).
I am thinking of doing a balance spell for recovering healing and peace between us. But will this help his emotional exhaustion as it has exhausting me? More so, I suggested for him to seek some mental help but he has been avoiding the conversation. Plus that he has been secretive about this. He is saying that I should look for someone more stable. He is very sensitive, but intelligent and super kind hearted.
What is the wise step or next phase to do? Especially now the next Lunar Eclipse coming, in which I want to do some meditation for myself and healing?
I layed some Lenormand cards to whether I should do a spell for us? I got:
Stork + Lilies + Moon.