me and my friend want to start a coven together but we don't know how to start and if there's any features covens need to have. also me and my friend are unsure about a person who wants to join our coven. he's very traditional which is obviously fine but he doesn't like it when "we do it the wrong way" and is very confrontational to my friend. me and my friend are very free spirited and creative with our craft so we're worried about this. any advise?