Hey everyone, this is the second time now my parents farm has been burglarized. The first time they only went through the main floor of the farm house and took a few of my fathers thing such as his tools, and made a small mess, this time they trashed the place and even stole both sets of our prized Elk horns which were bolted to the wall!! My parents are both gone now and my husband and I own the property, we live in a small house in a small town 30 minutes away, so the huge elk horns would not physically fit into our home so we kept them at the farm. Using the house as storage, we locked it up and all was good till last October, someone went into it and pilfered stuff and made a small mess, now this past week they got in again. This time they made a huge friggin mess!
How do you overcome the hurt, betrayal, lack of trust and anger, and many other emotions that have come up from this. I am so hurt, especially when in 5 years I will be able to start building our new home out there (with room to showcase my fathers antlers). But now the gorgeous antlers are gone! Do you think by doing a finders spell they might by chance come back to me?
Also just knowing strangers have been in the house and touching things that are my parents is such a gut wrenching violation of so many different things such as my memories, the physical property itself, my trust of people, and so on, how to I approach this with a more open mind, bec right now with it just happening yesterday all the emotions are extremely raw and violent (towards the perpetrators). We put the lock on so well they took the door off the hinges! So so frustrated!!