I had a dream but it was kinda really... Nice. I'm a gay guy and I've always wondered if I'd date someone who's trans (mainly ftm because... I'm gay). So I'm in this dream and I'm REALLY happy. Like I'm about to start a family with my bf (I think fiance) and I'm like the happiest I've ever been... EVER. Everything's falling into place and it's just amazing. So my S.O comes into the room and I see him for the first time and he's pregnant. And I'm like wait, because I've always thought I'd get a surrogate. But like dream me starts tearing up and I walk towards my S.O and I just hug him (but not too hard because pregnant) and I'm just holding him in my arms. And so I go in for a kiss and... I wake up.
Like I said, I've as a gay guy always wondered if I'd date a trans guy. And like I know that for many trans guys getting pregnant would be a major distress for those with major disphoria but in the dream it worked out. I was really happy and tbh I'm kinda disappointed it wasn't real.
Do you think my dreams were trying to tell me that yeah, I would definitely date a trans guy because they're guys too? Like it could be a bit different in some ways but honestly who needs a traditionally conventional family? I'm gay ffs. Idk. Any thoughts on this?
Well, trans men are men & some are okay with becoming pregnant. I, myself, am a trans dude & I personally wouldn't ever want to, but I know trans dudes who are gay and feel like they may be able to physically have children. Your dream might be a foreshadow (or whatever you may call it), but if you've been thinking about it a lot, it may just be subconscious. I don't know your daily thoughts, but it's something to think about!